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Permission and encouragement

For a couple to get out of the cycle of ‘she’s a bitch, he’s a bastard’ it is important they begin to understand the context within which conflict and methods or dealing with them arise. Helping them to see conflict itself as a completely natural and necessary part of...

Maintaining an effective, sensitive, mutually beneficial relationship

Often, after many years or decades of arguments mostly full of attack and counterattack, including every insensitive method known to humanity, one or both come to couple counselling disaffected and usually with a large amount of justifiable hopelessness, often hidden...

Dealing with issues of relationship conflict

Using Healing Inner Conflict (HIC) principles as a basis for dealing with issues of relationship conflict involves: Bringing the couple together in order to check out their individual desired outcomes. Unpacking the dynamics of the relationship by making distinctions...

Rain, Relationships and Retirement

After so much rain, you may find tempers flaring and frustration rising. Healing Inner Conflict (HIC) principles can be used as a basis for dealing with issues of relationship conflict. Unhelpful defence mechanisms that have developed over years of sadness and...

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